For presenting the idea that forcing a lesbian female out of the closet is acceptable, and if anything the kind and helpful thing to do, while outing a homosexual male is cruel, out of line and destructive

Now, I rarely argue with something like this, but Santana and Dave handled the situations differently. Santana is a lot stronger than Dave was and this is probably because she had Brittany. Dave had nobody. Kurt was ignoring him and Sebastian was a dick to him. He was alone, which is why he chose that route. Santana was loved by the girl she loved so her eventual outing by Finn was still devastating, but the way that she handled it after the anger ended was positive. So don’t act like Glee writers are saying that it’s okay to out a girl and not a guy. I actually commend them for showing the differences in certain types of outings. Dave was threatened as clearly seen in the gif, while Finn was just openly blurting out something about Santana that she wasn’t ready to say for herself. Just think a little more before making a post like this. 

Sincerely, someone who went through outings similar to Santana’s and Dave’s.